10 things guys should remember before having sex for the first time
"Selling your first gun is like having sex for the first time. You
have no idea what to do, but it’s exciting, and one way or another, it’s over
way too fast." This was narrated by Nicholas Cage in the movie Lord of War
(2005), and rightly so. This article aims to make you feel less nervous and
help you enjoy the blissful act of love. It promises to give you practical tips
and advice which will prepare you for your first time with a girl in bed.
1) Trim your body hair
Do women like body hair? Well that's a complicated question. But if you
want to play safe, which you likely want to do when you are having sex for the
first time, just make sure that you trim your body hair.
Just remember that excess body hair can sometimes be a turn off. Don't go
all out and wax your entire body or engage in any other bizarre body hair
treatments.
This better be the most cleansing bath you've ever had!
This better be the most cleansing bath you've ever had!
2) Take a bath and smell nice
Emptying a can of deodorant is just not good enough. Nor is a quick bath
enough preparation for the time you will spend with your girl in bed. Take a
nice and long hot shower or bath. Don't just clean yourself, cleanse yourself.
The difference between clean and cleanse is what can make or break your
appeal and if you really hit it off with your girl, chances are that you both
will be exposed to body odors like you never imagined. Practicing good hygiene
is not only a solid mood enhancer but will also give you a nice little confidence
boost because that will be one less area you will be nervous about.
3) Brush and carry a box of mints or extra strong chewing gum
It sounds silly to ask you to brush before you go meet your lady love and
the added advice of having you carry mints with you. However you should know
that foul smelling breath is one of the biggest turn offs.
Bad breath is one of the first signs of bad hygiene and can be a nightmare
to tolerate, that is if someone kind enough to tolerate in the first place. So
do what you need to do to make sure you have an extra zing in your breath.
While you may have a terrific body, don't keep flexing and posing in bed.
That will make you look like, well, a poser.
While you may have a terrific body, don't keep flexing and posing in bed.
That will make you look like, well, a poser.
4) Stop flexing - Your biceps are really not going to matter
While the boys may like to think that the definition of the muscles on
their biceps and triceps will woo a girl in bed, but that is hardly the case.
Remember, she has agreed to make love with you based on how you behave with her
and how you treat her as a loving partner.
Your bicep is just an example and this applies to all the other buffed up
muscles that may be a result of the many months you have spend in the gym. So
don't fret about pumping up those muscles and giving weird and unnecessary
poses while your girl watches you get undressed.
Kinda self explanatory, isn't it?
Kinda self explanatory, isn't it?
5) Don't overeat or stuff yourself just before
A heavy meal can not only make you feel lethargic, it may even result in
unwanted burps or passing air at the wrong time. The latter is probably one of
the most embarrassing situations you could be in, especially if it is your
first time.
So regardless of how delicious the food is at the restaurant where you and
your girlfriend have gone for a date, try not to stuff yourself. Needless to
say, avoid garlic, onion or any other foods that give you a perennial bad
breath.
It may seem tempting to live all your fantasies in one night. However it is
best to first ease yourself to a high level of emotional and physical comfort
with your partner before you even start thinking about this stuff.
It may seem tempting to live all your fantasies in one night. However it is
best to first ease yourself to a high level of emotional and physical comfort
with your partner before you even start thinking about this stuff.
6) Don't think about kinky stuff
If you are going to have sex for the first time, kinky stuff and the other
exciting moves that your friends have told you about should be the last thing
on your mind. Keep all those thoughts aside and leave the kinky ideas for times
when you and your girlfriend are more familiar with each other, on a physical
and on an emotional level.
7) Don't expect it to be like the steamy stuff you saw in adult videos
The basic assumption of the experience of making love for the first time
should not be based upon the hours or days you've spent being glued to porn
videos. While you may think that a long haired actor from a porn movie is the
ultimate sex god, that's hardly the case in real life.
If you really want to see what making love is all about, try watching a
tender love scene from a regular Hollywood blockbuster. You will notice that
there is more of emotion and expression, and less of banging, and all the other
terms used to describe an apparently perfect sexual experience.
Safe sex has never gone out of vogue! Make sure you protect yourself and
your girlfriend today to avoid a lifelong of repent and regret later on.
Safe sex has never gone out of vogue! Make sure you protect yourself and
your girlfriend today to avoid a lifelong of repent and regret later on.
8) Practice safe sex: Always carry protection
While Princesswithapen takes the chance of sounding like a nagging mother,
it is important for you to know that if you don't carry protection with you,
your few minutes of bliss could turn out to be the biggest mistake of your
life.
Under no circumstances should you leave anything up to chance when it comes
to protecting yourself and your partner from diseases, infections or pregnancy.
Pill or no pill, always wear a condom.
9) Don't over plan it
If you are going to spend days and weeks planning and organizing your first
rendezvous with your lady love in bed, that may very well fizzle out the spark.
This is not business, it's love. So stay away from nitty gritty planning and
use your common sense and intuition to plan your day out. Don't forget to the
important things like having a good place and making all the other arrangements
for an uninterrupted and blissful time.
It's OK to be nervous. But you must remember that she will be equally, if
not more, nervous just like you. So stop worrying and enjoy the moment.
It's OK to be nervous. But you must remember that she will be equally, if
not more, nervous just like you. So stop worrying and enjoy the moment.
10) She is as nervous as you are
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