Though there are text messages being exchanged among people making fun of their spouses alike, in reality most of us love to brag about ‘our better halves’. Here are some crazy reasons for women why they should be bragging about their husbands, more often! Read on...
1. Owner’s pride neighbours’ envy
We would be lying to our souls if we say we are never envious of others. And, yes there are a few who we would love to keep shut during those monthly kitty parties. So when the next door Mrs. Gupta is showing off her jewellery that her husband got from Dubai, it is perfectly alright to brag about the way your lovely husband proposed to you or arranged that soul-stirring romantic date for your birthday. This will surely get you more “awwws” than the flashy bangles from Dubai and may leave Mrs. Gupta eyeing for an exchange offer!
2. You are feeling lucky!
Believe it or not, when we brag about those “little good something’s” that our spouses do for us, we feel lucky. Be it making the morning tea or helping in the household chores, the hug before leaving for office or baby-sitting as you go for your spa appointment. As you count those endless good things that your husbands do for you; deep down you feel lucky about having found a partner like him. As it is, it is a well-known fact that talking about the good things makes the relationships stronger.
3. Getting things your way
A lot of women shared that, whenever they brag about their husbands at social gatherings, their husbands tend to listen to them more often! Husbands are more willing to do things that their wives want. May be because they know you hold high views about them and more importantly love them. What’s more? They certainly love it too when you brag about them publically, and believe us, they will do anything you ask to keep that going.
Just a word of caution: Don’t fake it. Keep it real! Everyone is smart enough to understand the difference between the two.
4. The other way round
Though a twisted one, but here is another reason why you should brag about your husband. If you want to change your man's 'certain' habits and make sure they don't come back, brag about those too.
They say a joke is a joke when cracked once. A joke repeated more than once becomes a remark. But why make it twice if the message is conveyed in one go. If you have ever jokingly bragged about that wet towel always lying crumpled on the bed or keys never being found at their place, jokingly at a party or family gathering, there are chances, (slight though), that your husband might refrain from doing it again. After all he wants you to hold a positive view of him. Never forget to balance your opinion with the positive bit. You definitely don’t want your husband to think that he lives with a criticiser or a cribber.
5. I am 'Happy' and it is showing
So, William Pharrell, thought of composing a song when he was happy. Bragging doesn’t necessarily have to be in public. If your state of mind is happy and you don’t know the exact reason why you are happy, it is best to brag about your ‘baby’ before him. Tell him how special you feel with him. Make him count the good things about him (well, you can do that once in a while). You surely don’t want to miss that blush he might be hiding or that teenage boy smile he might break into.
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